Post by terrytelschow on Jan 18, 2011 9:44:22 GMT -5
Dear Pastor Mike,
I have never developed any kind of confidence in sharing the word of god in any sort of difficult situation. Whether it be wanting to share the gospel to a complete stranger who I know is a skeptic on spiritual matters, or confronting a friend on a sinful lifestyle. Frankly, just turning my mind to the subject puts me in an awkward and uneasy mood.
I feel like this lack of confidence is based in two facts: 1. I know that I have sinned or am still struggling with sin seen socially worse than this person or the matter at hand and feel vulnerable to an attack or confrontation that will ultimately dissipate the original purpose of the conversation. And 2. I feel that I lack the biblical knowledge necessary to reference appropriately the supporting scripture.
Obviously, yes, I need to read the bible. I have been taking a lot in about your lessons in the past few weeks about reading the bible and am doing it more and more, so I suppose that that knowledge will come, but it seems that the confidence never will.
Example: let’s say that my best friend, who is a consistent believer in Christ, lives with his girlfriend and openly discuses topics of this sinful lifestyle. He knows its wrong, but does nothing. What do I say?
Or
I meet someone that drops in passing how they don’t believe in god and want nothing to do with him. What do I do?
How do I approach these situations without being judgmental and condescending? I know that I am to seek god’s word and will through prayer but I never feel enlightened enough to break the doubt and jump into the solution.
Maybe I have some serious confidence issues, but I feel that these types of issues weigh on the hearts of so many Christians, that counseling in this area is always a good thing.
I have never developed any kind of confidence in sharing the word of god in any sort of difficult situation. Whether it be wanting to share the gospel to a complete stranger who I know is a skeptic on spiritual matters, or confronting a friend on a sinful lifestyle. Frankly, just turning my mind to the subject puts me in an awkward and uneasy mood.
I feel like this lack of confidence is based in two facts: 1. I know that I have sinned or am still struggling with sin seen socially worse than this person or the matter at hand and feel vulnerable to an attack or confrontation that will ultimately dissipate the original purpose of the conversation. And 2. I feel that I lack the biblical knowledge necessary to reference appropriately the supporting scripture.
Obviously, yes, I need to read the bible. I have been taking a lot in about your lessons in the past few weeks about reading the bible and am doing it more and more, so I suppose that that knowledge will come, but it seems that the confidence never will.
Example: let’s say that my best friend, who is a consistent believer in Christ, lives with his girlfriend and openly discuses topics of this sinful lifestyle. He knows its wrong, but does nothing. What do I say?
Or
I meet someone that drops in passing how they don’t believe in god and want nothing to do with him. What do I do?
How do I approach these situations without being judgmental and condescending? I know that I am to seek god’s word and will through prayer but I never feel enlightened enough to break the doubt and jump into the solution.
Maybe I have some serious confidence issues, but I feel that these types of issues weigh on the hearts of so many Christians, that counseling in this area is always a good thing.